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    1. About the Alliance of Hope Community Forum

      How to register -- Guidelines for using a public forum -- Uploading photos -- Meet the moderators -- Reviews & awards
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    2. Suggestions, Feedback, and Announcements

      Read announcements here. Post suggestions to help us improve.
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      Bri2095970 Latest: Printing Threads Bri2095970, Aug 2, 2015 at 11:55 AM
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    1. Introduce Yourself

      Just joined? Make your introductory post here and subsequent posts on other topics, in the most appropriate forums below.
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      Terry S Latest: 3 Weeks And The Pain/guilt Is Getting Worse. Terry S, Aug 3, 2015 at 7:52 AM
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    2. Share About Your Loved One

      Our loved ones brought much into this world. This is a place to share about who they were: their talents and passions, their hopes and dreams, their challenges, accomplishments and contributions.
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      justjill Latest: For My Sweet Lesa justjill, Aug 2, 2015 at 10:03 PM
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    3. We Remember Birthdays & Anniversaries

      If the person you remember was born or died during the present month, we invite you to honor them. What gifts and blessings did they bring into this world?
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      AnneG Latest: Remembering His Heart And Soul AnneG, Aug 3, 2015 at 12:06 AM
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    1. The Survivor Experience

      Those who have lost loved ones to suicide know that there no experience quite like it. This is a place to share any aspect of your experience with others who understand.
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      tdragonfly Latest: The Emptiness Of Sunday! tdragonfly, Aug 3, 2015 at 3:29 AM
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    2. Signs, Serendipity, Life after Life

      Many people have a sense that their loved one is not "gone" but has "crossed over" to some other dimension. Have you had experiences in which you have felt the presence of your loved one?
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      Ano Latest: The Names Ano, Aug 2, 2015 at 11:21 PM
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    3. Secondary Wounds

      Sometimes, survivors experience additional pain when others do not understand, let them down, or blame them. These additional "wounds" are very painful because they are already raw with grief. Has this happened to you? Would you like to share about it?
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      echo Latest: The Bell Curve echo, Aug 3, 2015 at 5:52 AM
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    4. Guilt, Blame & Forgiveness

      Guilt and Blame are quick to surface in the swirl of emotions following a suicide. As healing takes place, many survivors find that Forgiveness does not change the past, but it changes some of the pain of the past and unlocks a door to the future. What have you noticed about guilt, blame or forgiveness?
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      Terry S Latest: Avoiding Future Guilt Terry S, Aug 3, 2015 at 7:09 AM
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    5. Accomplishments

      Healing after suicide requires courage as well as hard work. We take ground inch by inch. This is a place to acknowledge accomplishments and achievements (large and small). Did you take a shower? Leave the house? Organize, complete or communicate something? What has been happening?
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      Melinmc Latest: Gardening In Drought Melinmc, Aug 2, 2015 at 6:00 PM
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    6. What Helps?

      It's as simple as that! What helps you get through the day, the night, find your way in the world?
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      Ano Latest: Lessons From My Thunder Buddy Ano, Aug 2, 2015 at 10:06 PM
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    7. Turning Back Into Life

      At some point on the path of grief, almost imperceptibly, our challenges and accomplishments shift. If you are at the point where you are beginning to “turn back into life,” what are you noticing? How is this shift showing up for you?
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    8. Sleep & Dreams

      Survivors often report difficulty falling or staying asleep. Many also experience dreams about the deceased. Some dreams feel comforting -- some are troubling. What has been happening for you?
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      Melinmc Latest: Nightmares Or No Sleep Melinmc, Aug 3, 2015 at 8:03 AM
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    9. Pets

      Have you been comforted by pets ... or felt that they shared your grief? Post about that here.
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      Changed4Ever Latest: Saying Goodbye... Changed4Ever, Jul 26, 2015
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    10. Medications

      This is a place to discuss / debate the benefits, side-effects, recent news ... anything having to do with medications. DISCLAIMER: The opinions in this section are personal and may not be right for you. Consult your own physician for all medical decisions.
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      Tbird Latest: Thank God For Safaris Tbird, Jul 27, 2015
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    11. Addictions

      A place to discuss addictions and self-destructive behavior suffered by those who have died, as well as those who grieve their loss.
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      Ronnie Walker Latest: Jekyll And Hyde Mental State Ronnie Walker, Aug 1, 2015 at 5:47 PM
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    12. Holidays, Anniversaries & Special Occasions

      A place to share thoughts, feelings, concerns, accomplishments, and tips for getting through those special days.
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      cpiper Latest: Three Year Anniversary cpiper, Aug 3, 2015 at 3:33 AM
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    1. mary j Latest: Letter from the military mary j, May 15, 2015
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    2. Morgan89 Latest: My Hero Morgan89, Nov 14, 2013
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    3. IansMom Latest: Alliance Of Hope IansMom, Nov 24, 2014
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    1. sharry Latest: Name Heart 8 2 2015 sharry, Aug 3, 2015 at 1:09 AM
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    2. elise Latest: Family Curse? elise, Jul 28, 2015 at 3:57 AM
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    3. Terry S Latest: My 21 Year Old Brother Terry S, Aug 3, 2015 at 7:56 AM
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