Welcome to Our Community

Looking for support after a suicide? Join our community today.

Sign Up
    1. Help Us Meet a $10,000 Matching Gift Challenge

      We have until Tuesday to raise $10,000, which will fund our forum for 2 months.
      3
      3
      Ronnie Walker Latest: Join Me Online In Real Time Ronnie Walker, Aug 25, 2016 at 7:40 PM
      RSS
    2. Read Forum Guidelines & Meet the Moderators

      Our culture -- Guidelines for using a public forum -- Meet the moderators
      13
      48
      RSS
    3. Suggestions, Feedback, and Official Announcements

      Read announcements here. Post suggestions to help us improve.
      45
      484
      RSS
    1. Introduce Yourself

      Just joined? Make your introductory post here and subsequent posts on other topics, in the most appropriate forums below.
      5,902
      68,989
      Melinmc Latest: Confused Melinmc, Aug 29, 2016 at 7:17 AM
      RSS
    2. Share About Your Loved One

      Our loved ones brought much into this world. This is a place to share about who they were: their talents and passions, their hopes and dreams, their challenges, accomplishments and contributions.
      960
      7,133
      sad Latest: King Of The Castle.... Or Jester sad, Aug 23, 2016 at 6:36 PM
      RSS
    3. We Remember Birthdays & Anniversaries

      If the person you remember was born or died during the present month, we invite you to honor them. What gifts and blessings did they bring into this world?
      209
      2,157
      Ano Latest: My Best Friend Ano, Aug 27, 2016 at 11:20 AM
      RSS
    1. The Survivor Experience

      Those who have lost loved ones to suicide know that there no experience quite like it. This is a place to share any aspect of your experience with others who understand.
      7,585
      72,118
      balik_nisanli Latest: Anxiety About Going Back To Work Tomorrow balik_nisanli, Aug 29, 2016 at 7:33 AM
      RSS
    2. Signs, Serendipity, Life after Life

      Many people have a sense that their loved one is not "gone" but has "crossed over" to some other dimension. Have you had experiences in which you have felt the presence of your loved one?
      1,248
      12,809
      Ano Latest: Dreams Ano, Aug 27, 2016 at 11:26 AM
      RSS
    3. Secondary Wounds

      Sometimes, survivors experience additional pain when others do not understand, let them down, or blame them. These additional "wounds" are very painful because they are already raw with grief. Has this happened to you? Would you like to share about it?
      1,152
      11,799
      Cricket Latest: Destroying My Relationship Cricket, Aug 28, 2016 at 7:58 PM
      RSS
    4. Guilt, Blame & Forgiveness

      Guilt and Blame are quick to surface in the swirl of emotions following a suicide. As healing takes place, many survivors find that Forgiveness does not change the past, but it changes some of the pain of the past and unlocks a door to the future. What have you noticed about guilt, blame or forgiveness?
      669
      6,685
      Deb Adams Latest: Forgive Yourself Deb Adams, Aug 29, 2016 at 3:56 AM
      RSS
    5. Accomplishments

      Healing after suicide requires courage as well as hard work. We take ground inch by inch. This is a place to acknowledge accomplishments and achievements (large and small). Did you take a shower? Leave the house? Organize, complete or communicate something? What has been happening?
      824
      6,536
      RSS
    6. What Helps?

      It's as simple as that! What helps you get through the day, the night, find your way in the world?
      489
      3,854
      Deb Adams Latest: The Flowers Help Me Deb Adams, Aug 28, 2016 at 7:55 PM
      RSS
    7. Turning Back Into Life

      At some point on the path of grief, almost imperceptibly, our challenges and accomplishments shift. If you are at the point where you are beginning to “turn back into life,” what are you noticing? How is this shift showing up for you?
      325
      3,456
      Melinmc Latest: Countdown Israel: 20 Days 16 Hours 46 Minutes Melinmc, Aug 29, 2016 at 7:00 AM
      RSS
    8. Sleep & Dreams

      Survivors often report difficulty falling or staying asleep. Many also experience dreams about the deceased. Some dreams feel comforting -- some are troubling. What has been happening for you?
      529
      2,925
      TigerLily Latest: A Dream Of G Last Night TigerLily, Aug 28, 2016 at 10:19 PM
      RSS
    9. Pets

      Have you been comforted by pets ... or felt that they shared your grief? Post about that here.
      245
      1,881
      Michael's Mum Latest: His Red Dog Michael's Mum, Aug 20, 2016
      RSS
    10. Medications

      This is a place to discuss / debate the benefits, side-effects, recent news ... anything having to do with medications. DISCLAIMER: The opinions in this section are personal and may not be right for you. Consult your own physician for all medical decisions.
      132
      1,158
      RSS
    11. Addictions

      A place to discuss addictions and self-destructive behavior suffered by those who have died, as well as those who grieve their loss.
      116
      1,184
      RSS
    12. Holidays, Anniversaries & Special Occasions

      A place to share thoughts, feelings, concerns, accomplishments, and tips for getting through those special days.
      616
      3,928
      Finngarian Latest: I'm Dying Inside Finngarian, Aug 28, 2016 at 11:04 PM
      RSS
    1. XerosterX Latest: Dedication XerosterX, Jul 4, 2016
      RSS
    1. Ano Latest: The Beauty They See Ano, Aug 28, 2016 at 11:29 PM
      RSS
    2. DEW Latest: Visiting Place DEW, Aug 26, 2016 at 11:17 AM
      RSS
  1. Community Groups -- Under Construction

    Join people with similar interests.
    1. Groups

      Under Construction
      Discussions:
      26
      Messages:
      262
      Latest: I Hate My Basement Ano, Aug 28, 2016 at 10:52 AM
      RSS